Friendship ? (go back »)

Hey guys.
Can say that ii had been quite busy for the week.
Shall start with Thursday.
Wells.
As for the assembly on Thursday,
It was greattt (:
The racial harmony performance was nice (:
Got to see Lisa act on stage too (:
LOL.
Friday.
First two periods-Art.
Did some painting.
As for the 2 periods before recess-2 periods of P.E
Which was 2.4k.m. NAPHA.
ii'm like so tired after the run.
Uggh.
Swing-ed my arm so hard till ii think it's gonna break.
LOL.
Then it was recess.
Something unpleasant happened.
Jia Ying came to me and asked me to go to another spot to tell me something.
First sentence from Jia Ying: "Did you know why I did not join you for recess these few days? "
I was there thinking "Does that matter about joining someone for recess? All that matters that we are good friends. Being in good terms with someone doesn't necessarily mean that the person must join you for recess. Everybody can join anybody for recess, including me."

Second remark from Jia Ying "Did you know that it is not nice to go to another people's house for project? You will be disturbing them. It is very hard to contact people." (Project refers to the IPW project)
Here's my thoughts: "If everybody has the same thinking as you, and is not willing to allow group members go to their house, will the project be completed? Especially the IPW project. As everybody knows, the IPW project, is a major one. Most of the groups needs an average of 3 meet ups. As a considerate leader, considering that you are unable to go for meet ups on every Mondays; Tuesdays; Wednesdays; Fridays; and Saturdays, I only scheduled 2 meet ups.
I rescheduled the meet up, just to suit a JPS friend. Do you know that it is not an easy task to do so much work ?
Actually, most of the group members excluding you, are able to have their meet ups on most of the time, especially when it is the holidays.Pertaining to your question on going to others house which is not being nice, since the parents of the group member has allowed the group to do the project at their house, it won't be a problem to them. So, is that the reason why you don't allow the group to go to your house for the project ?
As for the part on contacting people, since you know that it is very hard to contact people, why did you change the date of the meet up? I had a hard time contacting the group members as it was the holidays. Just one remark from you can upset the meet up date for the project. As the group leader, I think I was nice, not to complain anything, considering the fact that we are JPS friends. When it is not my fault, I seriously need to voice out."

Third remark from Jia Ying: "Why aren't you concerned about your friends?"
Among the 3 remarks, this is the worst remark that I can get. As a concerned monitress, I treasure friendship too. Since when I am not concerned about my friends ? I need an example from you.
Here's her example "An example is when I had a stomachache." Then here's my viewpoints. "When did I not show concern to you on the occasion when you had an stomachache ? I asked if you was well a few times. That was the best a concerned friend could do. What else can a friend do when his/her friend had a stomachache ? Firstly. what do you want me to do ? Apply medication oil for you ? Most importantly, I DON'T even have medication oil with me. Here's an example from me. Still remember the occasion when you forgot your tie ? Who showed you concern and gave you a piece of advice ? I did my part as a friend, and showed concern. I even advised and comforted you. Didn't I do my part well as a friend ?"
Okay.
Here's an flashback.
Flashback 1: (That happened just not more than 2 weeks ago)
Myself to 5 years Jiemin Primary School buddy-Jia Ying: *Asks a simple question, like 1+1=? *
5 years Jiemin Primary School buddy-Jia Ying said: "It's for me to know and for you to find out" Uhms. I need to express my views. For such a simple question, you can just answer me with a straight forward answer. If you were a person whom I just knew for 6 months, and you said this, it is still acceptable for me. But
you are my 5 years Jiemin Primary School buddy ! You disappointed me very much. Seriously.
Flashback 2:
Do you still remember the recent English project ? Ours is on "Leisure". While all the group members went to Yun Qian's house to do the project,everybody turned up for both of the meet ups, and we managed to complete our share. But you didn't turn up for any of the meet ups. I, as a leader and your Jiemin Primary friend, I did not force nor blame you for not attending the meet ups. Furthermore, up to now, you haven't even gave me your share of project work. Actually, it was you who suggested to do the project on your own. If you turned up for the meet up, the project would be done long ago.
Conclusion:
As your concerned JPS friend, I am shocked by your sudden change. I don't wish to lose our friendship, probably due to some badmouth-ers.
Frankly speaking, I don't like badmouth-ers, as they would ruin friendship and the unity of the class.
Anyway, I am a person that treasures my friendship between all of us.
Actually I don't wish to put this up on blog, but after a deep thought, I deceided that it would be best to clarify doubts from some.
Okay.
All the points that I have stated above are STRICTLY MY OPINIONS. I AM JUST EXPRESSING MY VIEWPOINTS IN MY POST IN MY BLOG. WHEN IT IS NOT MY FAULT, I NEED TO VOICE OUT, TO JUSTIFY THINGS.